Tuesday, January 3, 2012

Achieve Your Goals Faster By Surrendering To Obstacles




There are few things more maddening than running into obstacles and blockages while you’re working toward your goals! You’ll be moving along nicely, feeling great about the progress you’re making, when all of a sudden – boom; you’re stuck. You’ve encountered an obstacle that you have no idea how to get around.

What you do next will often determine whether you achieve your goals or give up on them forever. Your first impulse will probably be to try to figure out a way to work through the obstacle or sidestep around it – or even force it to move out of your way.

But what if that doesn’t work? Does that mean your goals are toast? No!

Today you’re going to learn another powerful technique for dealing with obstacles: surrender.

You may think that surrendering to obstacles means that you’ll be giving up on your goals, but keep in mind that surrender is not the same thing as defeat.

When you surrender to obstacles, it means that you refuse to waste your energy fighting them. It means that instead of resisting and struggling, you’re going to step back and see the obstacle in a new light.

Here’s how to do it:

1) Step back and gain some emotional distance. When most of us encounter obstacles, we tend to take them personally and draw conclusions about what they mean. We throw our hands up and declare that our goals are finished, we’re finished, and we’ve failed. Nothing could be further from the truth!

Instead of drawing conclusions about the obstacle you’re facing, step back and observe it. Why has it appeared in your life? What lessons can you learn from it? Is it possibly an opportunity to stretch yourself more than you’ve been willing to in the past?


2) Open to your creative inspiration. Just asking those questions can get your creative inspiration flowing like crazy! When you detach from any need to push through the obstacle, you suddenly see that there are many other options available to you. During this time, be sure to jot down any insights and possibilities that may occur to you.

3) Give it time. Even if you see some great possibilities for working through or around the obstacle, don’t take action on them right away. Give it a few days. Keep your distance, and you’ll probably notice that your fear and frustration will begin to dwindle. Before long you’ll feel stronger and more capable about moving forward again, at which time you can put some of your new ideas into motion.

When you enter into this process of surrender, don’t be surprised if the obstacle dissolves spontaneously on its own! It happens frequently, simply because you’ve stopped trying to force things to happen and are instead willing to just go with the flow – which creates space for movement and progress to occur again.

8 comments:

  1. Vietnam internal Flights is at the southwest end of internal flight and offers rides cheapest domestic flights on the Reunification Express flights Vietnam Internal Flights Vietnam Domestic Flights, Vietnam Internal Flights - Book Vietnam Airline, International flight. Big discount, Cheapest price, 24/7 support.Book your Ho Chi Minh to Hue flights with Expedia and we guarantee you find the best price with no Expedia booking fees on single-carrier flights Ho Chi Minh to Hue Ho Chi Minh to Hue - Book Vietnam Airline. Big discount, Cheapest price, 24/7 support – Tel: (84-1) 682-28-10-87.

    ReplyDelete
  2. hey man youre spot on! following this blog for sure

    ReplyDelete
  3. I agree completely. :) You have to step back and take challenges as they are, not as signs that something's wrong.

    ReplyDelete
  4. This is so true! just starting something is a victory, you have to persevere, but the starting up part is the hardest.

    ReplyDelete
  5. good point! i like your blog, so you got a new follower :D +1

    ReplyDelete
  6. 3.Give it time
    I need to take this one into account in everyday life...

    ReplyDelete